when a long term marriage comes to an end

Fairytale Relationships – When ‘Loving Too Much’ is Destructive

When a long-term marriage comes to an end, it’s an opportunity to let go of the life you thought you wanted in order to manifest the life you truly deserve.    In getting to this stage, you must be prepared to let go of the illusion of the fairytale.  Sometimes, A Frog is Really a Frog Despite the woman’s movement taking us out of the kitchen and into the world of equal opportunity, it seems that even the strongest, most independent and intelligent of us women, still manage to become needy and dependent when love finds its way into our hearts.    For me, it was 1986 (some 30 years ago, but who’s counting).    It started with an unconscious recreation of the Cinderella complex – a term I made up – but essentially it’s an inability to distinguish fairytale from reality.   A belief that no matter how bad you’re relationship is, it Read More